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"Perceptive, subtle, and provocative...a moving and memorable story." — Publisher's Weekly "A remarkable first novel." — LA Review of Books "A captivating story you won’t be able to put down." — Ms. Magazine "A must-read." — Lambda Literary Review

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Lucky and her husband, Krishna, are gay. They present an illusion of marital bliss to their conservative Sri Lankan–American families, while each dates on the side. It’s not ideal, but for Lucky, it seems to be working. She goes out dancing, she drinks a bit, she makes ends meet by doing digital art on commission. But when Lucky’s grandmother has a nasty fall, Lucky returns to her childhood home and unexpectedly reconnects with her former best friend and first lover, Nisha, who is preparing for her own arranged wedding with a man she’s never met.

As the connection between the two women is rekindled, Lucky tries to save Nisha from entering a marriage based on a lie. But does Nisha really want to be saved? And after a decade’s worth of lying, can Lucky break free of her own circumstances and build a new life? Is she willing to walk away from all that she values about her parents and community to live in a new truth? As Lucky—an outsider no matter what choices she makes—is pushed to the breaking point, Marriage of a Thousand Lies offers a vivid exploration of a life lived at a complex intersection of race, sexuality, and nationality. The result is a profoundly American debut novel shot through with humor and loss, a story of love, family, and the truths that define us all.




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"A remarkable novel rich with interlocking issues both timeless and timely. SJ Sindu’s debut is more than impressive; it’s important."
Robert Olen Butler, Pulitzer Prize–winning author of A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain

“I love Lucky, the unforgettable narrator of Marriage of a Thousand Lies. She has taken a place among my favorite misfits in literature, a young woman longing for love and tradition and celebration and family even as she defies expectations and navigates her own paths. I’m especially captivated by the novel’s honesty and tenderness—SJ Sindu is an intuitive writer with great insights into the complications of love and friendship.”
Timothy Schaffert, author of The Swan Gondola

"SJ Sindu has written an important novel about Sri Lankan immigrant culture. Here, the intersections of migration, sexuality and culture are explored in loving and heartbreaking detail. A book that reveals the secrets of a community caught between East and West."
Nayomi Munaweera, author of Island of a Thousand Mirrors

The Toronto Star

"Enthralling . . . Sindu is a skilled writer, and this is a remarkable first novel."
Los Angeles Review of Books

“Perceptive, subtle, and provocative…. Sindu’s characters, including Lucky’s divorced parents, are all believably complicated and compassionately observed…in a moving and memorable story.”
Publisher's Weekly

"Marriage of a Thousand Lies is a rare book, written from a queer, South Asian perspective, but a welcome addition to an all-too-small canon."
Houston Press

"[Sindu] has written a debut novel that is honest and moving—a complex story about a Sri-Lankan family and a strong female protagonist who struggles with her own identity against a backdrop of deep traditions and community."
Tallahassee Democrat

"Sindu’s heart-wrenching debut novel . . . incorporates love, loss, family, rebirth and growth to tell a captivating story you won’t be able to put down."
Ms. Magazine

"Marriage of a Thousand Lies is a fascinating work."
PASTE Magazine

"Sindu takes on the conflict between love of family and of oneself with clarity and laughs."
NOW Magazine

"So good . . . heartbreaking in the way it portrayed the characters torn between happiness and custom. SJ Sindu does a beautiful job describing how Lucky feels about living a secret life and her fear of disappointing her parents, and the language and imagery is gorgeous."

"SJ Sindu’s fine debut [is] a timely tale with themes of immigration, free will, identity, and personal choice."

"An important intervention in the canons of both LGBTQ and South Asian literature. Marriage of a Thousand Lies is not only important: it’s also a beautiful book, with fresh, tidy prose, and complex, flawed characters, a novel that is at once sad and hopeful."

"Marriage of a Thousand Lies is a deeply affecting work in many ways."
The Aerogram

"A well-written debut . . . brings to light the layers of struggles that shape our decisions on how we choose to live our lives. "

"A poignant, heart-warming love story."
Youth Ki Awaaz


Title: Marriage of a Thousand Lies
Publisher: Soho Press
Release date: June 13, 2017
Cover: Click here to download a high res image of the novel cover

ISBN-10: 1616957905
ISBN-13: 978-1616957902

ISBN-10: 1616959479
ISBN-13: 978-1616959470

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